The side of your ribs. The underside of your knee. The hollow of your hip. The little spot behind your earlobe, just near the hair line. The curve of your shoulder blade. All of those little places along your body that may not seem erogenous; but are. Including the tight, little, scrunched up hole between your butt cheeks.

The anus, the asshole, the butt; contains a high number of peripheral nerve endings, for both men and women, than most parts of the body. Also for many women their clitoral organ, which is actually more than just the little knob at the top, that pokes out; has legs long enough that reach down below their pelvic floors and brush up against the ones in their ass. Making it all that more pleasurable for them.

There are all sorts of ways to explore the sensual sensations found in your butt. Beyond actual penile penetration, most people find toys to be the most fun. Everything from small beads, to long cylinder probes of various lengths. Generally something solid and smooth is going to be your best options. The muscles of the sphincter are some of the strongest in the human body. When they clench down you’ll truly understand the term “tight ass”. You don’t want something flimsy breaking off in there, so choose something made of glass or steel.

You will find that this is not play that can be rushed into. Patience is a virtue, was never a truer statement. Not only are those anus muscles strong, they don’t like to be pushed. They can stretch, like those of the vagina, but it takes time to coax them to relax. Cella said "It took us months of my playing alone with my butt hole; and my honey using his various body parts; before we could commit to the actual deed. The pleasure that we both received in the ’end’ (yes, pun intended) was well worth the time and effort to explore slowly."

The one thing that the ass doesn’t have that makes sex enjoyable - natural lubrication. So when embarking upon this sort of play, do a little research on lubes first. Predominantly, a water based lube is preferable for most play; however we would recommend the silicone or oil one for longer lasting effects. The water-based ones will slowly be absorbed by your body, or evaporate into air around you. You don’t want to have to ‘re-lube’ half way through your enjoyment.

Enjoy your body. Your whole body. Not just the parts on the front of your body that hang off. But also all of those, not so hidden, parts of your body, just waiting to be discovered.